Happy Namaste!
So, Marianne Williamson refers to relationships as "the workshop of the Holy Spirit," and I take this to mean that any time we are involved with somebody else in an intimate way, we are learning the lessons that we need to learn in a laboratory environment. Here's the thing about labs: they're set up, well, they're intended to be set up, to be safe havens where you can do frightening things, and work with dangerous chemicals, open flames, sharp objects, and/or forces of nature and the like under Divine Supervision. This, my darlings, is good news. We can't really be hurt, although our ego can manufacture a victim story, and our bodies can hold negativity as long as we feel those will serve us. BUT WE DON'T HAVE TO DO IT THAT WAY. We can realize that we are safe and we can thank other people for pissing us off and generally not acting right because, in so doing, they are showing us what we need to be working on. Because we are under the protection and care of the Benign Divine, we can realize this: Everyday is Happy Namaste.